Is Enduring COVID-19 Making You Mushy? Here’s How To Thrive.

I think COVID-19 is making me mushy. I’m starting to tear up at every feel-good video I see. ūüėĘ  Which makes me not want to scroll Facebook anymore. And what would life be without scrolling through Facebook? That’s a rhetorical question, mostly aimed at myself, so please don’t answer if you hate Facebook, or worse yet, don’t have an account. Because, trust me, if you are one of those folks, you probably can’t relate to what you just read. Let’s try it this way . . .

Have you ever cried during a Hallmark or Lifetime movie or while watching a diaper commercial with a baby just starting to crawl? Or even worse, have you ever seen those ads for services to find a place for your elderly mom to live when you can’t care for her at home? When I think about it, those are probably the worst for me. I haven’t seen my mom without a mask for so long, and she is getting older, and often doesn’t feel well, and she is so afraid of getting the virus, and her fears have become my fears, so those commercials just KILL me! Does any of that hit you in the heart, too? If yes, keep reading. Because although you are hanging in there, the pandemic is getting to you. And this will seem like it’s all about me, but I’m actually writing this for all of us, so we don’t forget the fabric from which we are made. We are made to thrive.

I write humorously about all of this, while clutching my heart, because it’s the only way I know how to stay positive through so many tears. Through so much loss. Just today, one of my Mary Kay Director sisters told me that in the last 7 days, 4 people she knows had death in their immediate family. That’s four families and potentially hundreds of people that have crossed over the bridge to the side of sadness and now are just trying to bear up. Because isn’t that what we are all doing? Just trying to bear up?

And then, aside from the tremendous loss of life, and the associated community grief, one of the great heartbreaks of COVID-19 for me personally, is something I have otherwise taken for granted:

Human Connection.

See, I smile at strangers until they smile back. A run to Whole Foods for “buy 2, get 1 soup Wednesday” might be a two-hour trip. Why?  Chatting. People ask me questions every where I go. But especially in the Whole Foods gluten-free aisle. And yes, I ‘love me some’ Whole Foods, and would sleep there on the floor in between the organic white sweet potatoes and the exotic olive bar if it were allowable, but I do not now, nor have I ever been blessed with the privilege of working there. And yes, I‚Äôm super busy. But I‚Äôm also a sucker for a real conversation.

Do you remember it too? Standing less than one foot apart? Reaching over to touch someone? Saying hello without a mask? For me, normalcy also included getting to the heart of a deep personal life issue within minutes, while strolling the book section at Costco or at my neighborhood DSW, and then hugging someone I‚Äôve only just met. That‚Äôs been my life since I was 5 years old. In fact, my whole life, my mom has repeated the story of Rosemarie Bell, my first friend outside of our family. During the first few weeks of school, way back in 1973, while mom was waiting to pick me up at noon, in the glory days of morning and afternoon kindergarten, little Rosemarie walked up to my mom, pulled her coat, introduced herself, and said: “I really like your daughter, Chatone. She’s so nice. We talk a lot. She’s my best friend.” (Now we won’t go into how she knew it was my mom. Lets’s just suffice it to say I grew up in an area that was not diverse.)

The point is, I am the girl who turns around in line at Target to chat folks up. I run after people who have dropped a dollar. Inevitably, I find keys on a clearance cardigan table in Walmart, panic in advance for the person that left them, run through the store looking for a lady who looks somewhat frantic, and then reluctantly go to customer service, turn in the keys, and wait to see if she comes. (That sounds a little dramatic, but it’s a true story – more than once!)

As a Coach-Copywriter-Entrepreneur-Mary Kay business owner, I have met many clients just by being my authentic self, interested and kind. In the words of Kathleen Kelly, played by Meg Ryan in one of my all-time favorite movies, “You’ve Got Mail“, it’s rarely just business for me. It’s all personal.  My gift and my passion is loving on people until they feel better. I listen. I see where things are broken and help find pieces that need picking up. I empower people (especially other women) to put the pieces back into place and adjust their crown.  In fact, I have listened to more 10-year life histories during a 10-minute encounter while walking through a mall, that I cannot possibly recount them all. My kids laugh at me. No matter what, I can come home from the supermarket with more stories of strangers than groceries; ALL of them ending with me hugging someone I didn’t know before I left the house. I don’t want COVID to change the fabric of who I am. And for that, I am mushy.

Am I also a little over the top? Maybe. But I’ve met so many women who go home to sadness and depression and abuse and loneliness. If I meet her, I simply feel compelled to see if I am able to bring at least one good curve to her lips, one good moment. I don’t post it on Facebook or ‘do it for the gram’. And although I LOVE a feel-good story, which I already said, it’s not for anyone else. It’s a personal mission. I like making people feel happy. I don’t want anyone to feel alone. And I’m all in for the long haul from day one.

Which brings me back full circle to my mom. Because although I grew up with two loving (albeit a bit over-bearing) parents in my home, it was a strong black woman who raised me. She did day’s work with a smile. She was a keypunch operator and made it sound enjoyable. She worked when my dad’s business failed and he couldn’t find employment. She cooked natural meals before it was called organic, and no one knew what it was, and she did it on food stamps. She drove a long commute that she absolutely hated, to a job where she excelled, but never got promoted. She saved my life in first grade, in the middle of the night, when I became dehydrated and lost consciousness on the floor of my room. I know I can’t actually remember it, because I wasn’t conscious, but I feel like I can. I know she rode in the back of the ambulance and yelled all the way to Orange Memorial Hospital, while the EMT did mouth-to-mouth resuscitation. I know she was crying and blaming herself. But in reality, she found me. She saved me. Because she was the kind of mom that peeked her head in the rooms of her girls every night, just to check.

She is a ride or die chick, incredible in a crisis and always ready to give you a belly laugh and a sincere exclamation when something exciting happens. It’s also true that a gecko can’t come in the house without her screaming to her wit’s end, and she is afraid to fly, and fearful of heights, and mice, and bugs, and dark alleyways. But if someone is on the roof, ready to jump, hysterically crying or inconsolable – my mom’s ability to calmly talk the person back to life, with logic and love and loyalty, is simply astonishing. (True story.) When I was growing up, let someone be a misfit, unloved, unappreciated, uncared for, less fortunate, under educated, or even, dare I say, weird – my mom was all in. She is the original Die Hard With A Vengeance. And yes, I adored my father, and I think I just might have been the ‘apple of his eye’. But my strength comes from my mom. And every day that another friend loses a parent, or I attend another virtual funeral, I get mushier.

My Mom. My Big Sister. And Me.

So yeah. This pandemic is making me soft. Not just because I don’t always feel like jumping on my Peloton and riding it out with my online coaches. Or because I eat a few too many Kirkland Pink Himalayan Salt potato chips. But because I’m absorbing so many tears from so many people. And I’m starting to realize that I may not have my mom forever the way I had planned. And I’m no different than any one of my friends who now feel like they are orphans. And no matter how many crowns I wear or titles I have or books I write or products I sell or people I serve and empower to feel confident; one day I will lose my mom and join the club of parentless adults. And right now, in this moment, it’s a reality that precipitated the longest blog I have ever dared to write in one sitting, in my fully-authentic, way-too-many-words, and way-too-many-thoughts voice, and post without editing.

And if you managed to read all the way down to this paragraph, thank you. I appreciate you. Share this with someone who will enjoy my sincere ramblings. In the meantime, I hope you remember to Focus Attention & Take Time with every person you love, even if they make you frustrated, and you don’t always understand them. Remember to make eye contact and say hello and smile at strangers, even if your face is covered by a mask. Do it because they need it, and because you just might need it too.

Chatone Morrison © January, 2021


Princess of Positivity¬ģ, Chatone Morrison is the author of the book FATT & Happy, a self-coaching course and journal for women, and a Content Strategist & Confidence Coach for Women Entrepreneurs. She is the owner of Chatone Morrison Consulting and the founder of The Confident Content Cafe, specializing in content creation, confidence coaching, consulting and strategy for women-owned small businesses.  She is a highly creative, high energy, heart-led, coach, consultant, mentor, leader, speaker and author, and she is absolutely passionate about helping her clients to script their unique stories, know their niche and find their voice, systematize their message and move past the negativity so they can confidently sell their services on and off-line.  She also has a Mary Kay business and loves to share both the products and the business opportunity with women who are ready to shine. She believes that you can absolutely release negativity so positivity can reign in your brain, in your business and in your big beautiful life.  To apply for a strategy session with Chatone, go to bit.ly/contentkickstartcall or visit chatonemorrison.com.

What Would Miranda Say?

One of the offputting things about having a business and having brand consistency is that life throws all kinds of curveballs and then you feel like you are arriving in Stucksville.

Stucksville is a fictional city discovered by my Dad.  I learned over time that the only way out is by drawing the lines on a roadmap, reading the signposts, finding the mile markers, making a way.  It doesn‚Äôt have to be hard.  It just has to work. What’s your way?

…You might be a weight loss coach struggling with post-baby weight, or

…You might be a parent coach with kids that are completely out of control, or 

…You might be a relationship coach in a difficult marriage, or

‚ĶYou might trademark something like, say, Princess of Positivity¬ģÔłŹ, and be in the middle of a pandemic, and so worried about your family and friends that the stress is wrapped around your neck and negativity is creeping up out of your slipper socks!¬† OK, maybe that‚Äôs just me‚Ķ

When life is on my nerves, I find comfort in words.  I can write a paragraph or two, read a favorite passage from the Bible, recite a poem or the guiltiest of “word pleasures‚ÄĚ, Netflix & Chill.  Think about it, is there anything like repeating all the best dialogue, along with Miranda in ‘The Devil Wears Prada’?  (I think not)

Every one of us is at bat. We are dodging curveballs, being thrown as fastballs, and running around the diamond, trying not to slide, even though spring training is canceled.  Take a breather when you need to.  Find words to get you through.  And by all means, have a movie date right in your living room.  Then, get back up, and get to work.  Feel good.

Chatone Morrison, ©2020


Chatone Morrison is the Princess of Positivity¬ģ . Content Strategist & Confidence Coach. Gifted Writer Creating Print & Video Content that Raises Confidence, Positivity, & Energy in Corporate Women and Business Owners. Self-Talk Shifter. Motivation Elevator.  Catalyst.

Specializing in content creation, confidence coaching, consulting and strategy for women-owned small businesses, Chatone is the owner of Chatone Morrison Consulting.  As a highly creative, high energy, heart-led, coach, consultant, mentor, leader, speaker and author, Chatone is absolutely passionate about helping her clients to script their unique brand story, know their niche and find their voice, and systematize their message.  Chatone believes that you can release negativity so positivity can reign in your brain and in your business.  To work with Chatone, go to bit.ly/contentkickstartcall or visit chatonemorrison.com

What Moment Will You Cherish?

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Cherishing My Moments. Because “one day it could be otherwise”.

For the last several days I’ve been in Puerto Plata, Dominican Republic without my family. For someone else that might seem normal enough, but that just means they haven’t met me yet. Traveling? Check! Traveling internationally? Check! Traveling internationally without my husband? That would be an automatic no for me.

However we had an issue with our kids passports; I had no choice. I needed to come and welcome our family and guests, all the while praying hubby could get 24 hour passport renewal without me being in the room. DO NOT…I REPEAT…DO NOT TRY THIS AT HOME!!

(I will save the details for another blog once I can find the humor in it. That hasn’t happened yet! But to whet your appetite It includes the following: nine school children who wouldn’t get out of the street, an irate customer care agent who should hand in her resignation NOW, a monsoon, 15 hours of hunger, struggling up a steep cobblestone hill on a golf cart with no windshield through the previously mentioned monsoon, 4 defunct Internet cafes, a lawyer who can no longer hold his own pen but has the notary stamp, holding back the traffic of 489 aggressive motorcycle drivers, to run through the traffic and that blasted monsoon and at least one donkey.)

Now that my family is here I am once again reminded why it’s so important to authentically focus and take time. To slow down and be present. To cherish the moment. To know that: “one day it could all be otherwise”. To learn more about this concept, check out the last episode of, The Sunday Corner‚ĄĘ,¬†on YouTube: bit.ly/ChatoneYT

Last night we celebrated with a special dinner. And while this is not a restaurant review it just might make you hungry to visit the DR and come to this fabulous spot.

Travel with me….

We dined at at “Saffron”, a private restaurant here in Puerto Plata. How it lived up to its name!!

Fresh healing herbs infused into every bite. Yes, the food was amazing. Mediterranean hot and spicy lentil and root vegetable soup, smooth hummus and eggplant purée in tiny white bowls served alongside pickled carrots and beets and thick pita bread straight from the oven. The tender roasted lamb chops the size of beef ribs, the chicken tangine arrived at the table atop pearl potatoes, tiny okra and in a sauce with the perfect bite. All of this feast paired with a delectable deep red wine, then finished with crispy phyllo stuffed with apricots and drizzled with warm honey. We were directly at the ocean in a evening so dark, we could hear the surf and waves and the song of night birds, but see nothing. Not even the sand. It was truly a gorgeous experience.

And yet it became pale because I was in the midst of cherishing that my “forever boyfriend” had finally arrived. Mark Morrison is better than the best dinner in the best location in the best part of the most beautiful island. I have cherished him since I was 14 years old. I want to continue.

When you stop to focus and take time, you notice all the tiny hints of moments to cherish and enjoy.

Your turn…

Chatone Morrison ©2017

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Nothing Compares To You

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NOTHING COMPARES TO YOU…BELIEVE IT!

When is the last time you felt that nothing compared to you?¬† You know that feeling when you are ‚Äúsitting pretty‚ÄĚ without even trying?¬† When you are in the midst of the best you, doing the things that make you feel great from the inside out?¬† If it has been a while, this blog is just for you.¬† If you can‚Äôt remember when, ¬†you may have fallen victim to someone else’s hype. If you can’t remember, ¬†it‚Äôs ¬†been way too long. ¬†

Guess what? ¬† Contrary ¬†to popular belief‚Ķnothing compares to you. ¬† It wouldn‚Äôt sting so badly if this statement weren’t true.¬† But it is true.¬† Your specialness precedes you, even when you don‚Äôt see it.

Why You Don’t See It

You don‚Äôt see where you don’t look.¬† As women we are oftentimes looking for the good in everyone around us.¬† It becomes our singular job to uplift, empower, encourage and nurture. ¬†The family, the job, the school, where we volunteer, all get our best. ¬†They may or may not give us compensatory thanks. ¬†We are literally living our specialness and giving it away simultaneously, so much so that we personally miss it altogether. ¬†Search. ¬†Look deeper.¬† It‚Äôs still there.

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Your standards of ¬†“best you” are not quite right. ¬†you using to compare your Have you ever looked in a old,¬† cloudy or cracked mirror?¬† How did you look?¬† Even if you could make out all your features, would you trust that mirror to put on your makeup?¬† Do your hair for an evening out?¬† Dress yourself?¬† What might the chances be for you to make an error in judgement and totally miss it?¬† Fairly high, right? ¬†

How often are your standards set by you instead of strangers?   When an important path is set by someone who doesn’t know how unique and lovely you are, you will never feel that you measure up.  Period.  Take a look at your mirror.  If it can be cleaned up, do it.  If it needs replacing, throw it away and start again.

La, La, La…I Can’t Hear You!

Sound like a child you know?¬† This is a fan favorite with small children.¬† They tune out cellphone-andrik-langfield-petrides-348253what they don‚Äôt want to hear. ¬†Have you taken on this childlike behavior? ¬†Is it wrecking havoc on your self-esteem and confidence? ¬†You can get so busy hearing what people you don‚Äôt know are whispering to you that you don‚Äôt hear what those who know and love you are screaming. ¬†This social media monster is in a constant chase for our hearts.¬† It‚Äôs a necessary evil that can replace the human interaction in our lives if we let it.¬† Next stop?¬† No longer listening to important people who know you, love you, understand where you have been and where you are going.¬† Hand over ears and eyes, you make others out to be wrong; no longer believing the truth. ¬†It’s gradual and insidious and happens way too often!¬†It‚Äôs annoying when kids do it.¬† (Newsflash:¬† It‚Äôs annoying when adults do it too!)

What Can You Do?

  1. If you nurture others; nurture yourself too.  Give away some of your best self, and keep some for yourself.  It’s easier said than done, so practice is needed.  
  2. Take a good look at your mirror.  If the standards you are working with no longer fit you make a change.  Evolve them. Remove them.  You will not stay the same woman, especially as you gain more life experience (age/wisdom, etc).  Expect the metamorphosis and accept it for what it is . . . Something Wonderful. 
  3. Unless you are a very tall, feathery and fast bird running on the plain, you can no longer use ostrich-like habits to excuse away who you are.  Rejecting reality does not change it.  When others acknowledge you, it is a blessing.  Develop your listening and appreciation skills.  Very few people have the desire to flatter you for no reason.  Listen.  You just might hear something great.

The late artist Prince said it best:  Nothing compares to you.   However, if you don’t allow yourself to go to your own party, the party will go on without you.  Since it’s being thrown in your honor, you might as well enjoy it.  

Chatone Morrison ©2017

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Are You Wearing Your Jacket?

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This morning while driving my son to school I had an epiphany. ¬†I was cold! ¬†Well not cold exactly. ¬†But just enough to get my attention. ¬†It’s October here and although the early mornings turn to warmth and sunny afternoons I need to remember to simply dress for the weather that snow. ¬†Not just the weather to come. ¬†When I do that, there are no surprises. ¬†Just one extra layer and it all somehow works in my favor. ¬†And no, this is not a blog post about “what not to wear” in fall or how to be a fashionable mom in the car loop, well unless that is how you choose to take it. ¬†This is a blog about feeling the duality of the reality what is in front of you and dealing with it just as it is. ¬†In other words, want to have a positive enjoyable October morning in the northeast? ¬†Add an extra layer. ¬†Wear a jacket.

Do you own a “jacket of positivity“? ¬†What color is it? ¬†Is it so well-worn that it fits your body like a glove? ¬†Is it among the favorite pieces in your closet, so much so that you wouldn’t dare leave the house without it? ¬†Did you lay it down and now have no idea where it is? ¬†How’s that going for you?levi torn jacket biker unsplash

For at least the time being, people are going to continue to be rude, nasty, full of road
rage, and Target waiting in line rage, and kindergarten rage…etcetera, etcetera. ¬†It’s like an elementary school playground at recess, all the jackets of positivity have been left in a pile on the ground. ¬†Is yours in there someplace?

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Even as I write this and make an off-the-“jacket”-cuff metaphor about the way we show up for ourselves and our family as women, I hope it makes sense. ¬†Ultimately it’s up to each of us to decide what to put on each day. ¬†An armor of positivity is the¬†exact opposite of not standing up for yourself. ¬†It means you face and flight what matters most, all the while being an example, a stand, an elevated platform those blessed to be in your presence. ¬†And in the end the recipient of the biggest blessing is you.

Go find your jacket. Pin it.  Tweet it.  Put it on the Gram.  But most of all wear it.  It will fit over your t-shirt or your evening gown.  You will be the most fashionable in every single room.  And maybe, just maybe, you will start a new trend.

Chatone Morrison ©2017

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Revealing The Secret Life of Hands

 

cbm hands october 2017This morning my hands lovingly squeezed fresh lemons, making an attempt at distracting me from more senseless killing.  The fragrance lingered behind and I was reminded that a 5-minute act can still create joy.  There is still beauty created in simple acts.

The thing about our hands is that we use them every single day. All day. With our hands we smooth the skin on our face and body. We rouse awake. Wash our children. Hold our spouses.

With our hands we plant the garden. Cook the food. Make the coffee. Cook the breakfast. Pack the lunches. We sign the homework. Check the backpack. And then we sit them on our hips as a sign. A sign to move on with our day.

One month ago, today, my hands rose super early. They packed my bags. Brought my things to the truck. Drove 400 miles to my “big brother’s” funeral. My hands wiped my tears. His wife’s tears. My friend’s tears. My hands provided comfort.

These same hands held my 11 year old’s (when no one was looking) when he was a bit nervous on the first day of middle school. ¬†They applauded when he could find his locker and got his first “A” of the semester. ¬†And in their versatility, they wrung repeatedly when consecutive hurricanes hit and the worry was as deep as the falling rain. ¬†Then, my hands became an essential oil diffuser and massaged my temples when I was sleepless.

When I was 18 months old, my right hand was badly burned.  The scar is a reminder of my mom and dad screaming through the house, taking care of me.  When the weather is cold the skin is ashen, tight, itchy and draws attention.  My hand holds this secret that spans my entire life and the memory never ceases to bless me.

Whether I’m in a place of curiosity and courage or gloom and grief, I ask my hands to be on a mission of service. ¬†Days like today, I don a black leather “CLARITY” bracelet on my right hand. ¬†It’s a nudge in the direction of understanding, gratitude and as much positivity as possible.

Focus and Take Time with your hands.  The secrets they tell need never be spoken.  Use them to do something simple yet powerful.  Change a moment.  Change an evening.  Change a year.  Change a life.

Chatone Morrison ©2017

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“Be You, Beautiful!” A Poem in Support of Self-Acceptance & Showing Up Positive

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Self-Acceptance is a movement that is hard won by most women. ¬†It’s¬†something¬†we want, need even, but a serious challenge to get and even more challenging to maintain. ¬†I¬†should know…I’ve been at it for a long time! ¬†

Last week’s Sunday Corner video on my YouTube channel broke down part of my journey to self-acceptance. ¬†If you missed it here is the link: ¬†http://bit.ly/selfieacceptance

If you are in in the midst of your own personal journey – it’s my hope that this poem nudges you along.

Be You, Beautiful!

Carry bits of dreams
Use them to find your glow 
Stuff them in the pockets of your jeans
When looking out every window

Be You
Beautiful
Clary-Saged
Clarified 
Out loud 
Big
Broad
Personified
Dignified 
Undeterred
SteamedBoiledRaw
Undeferred 
Dreams

Carry them in elaborately woven 
Burlap sacks 
Brimming 
9-5 Tears
Pennies
Crumbs
Daily grinds 
Positives 
Prerogatives & 
Dog-eared Envelopes full of 1990’s
Negatives

And when it’s time to show
Be you ready!

Glorified & Purified with
White rose and Orange essence 
Heady with the fragrance of Success
Already unjarred 
In the distance but
Not-too-far 

So keep carrying your bite sized bits
Fit them deep down in every crease
Let them run down your face like grease
Lubricating every move
Fall into the sole of shoes
And sneakers
Every step you take
Be you
Beautiful

Stand closer to the speaker
Hear today 
Here tomorrow
Even when the vision seems imprisoned

Don’t forget to look out every window
Fingertips to lips 
Shhhh

Your dreams are whispering
Cup your ear &
Listen

Poetry By:  Chatone Morrison  ©2014

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STORY TIME!! The “Get To Know Me” Tag – Blog #1

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In the spirit of having a bit of fun and opening up, I have decided to do a series of ‚ÄúGetting to Know Me‚ÄĚ blog posts.¬† As a wife, mom, mompreneur, writer, coach, and of course, the Princess of Positivity, I wear a lot of crowns‚ĶI mean hats!¬† I‚Äôm often so focused on uplifting others, ¬†I forget that most of the people who visit my sites or read my material have never met me!¬† So here goes.¬† Look out for an accompanying video‚Ķthere just might be one coming!

1.  Are you named after anyone?

I am!  When my dear mom was pregnant with me she met a lady named Chatone.  She fell in love with the name and told my dad.  He said if I was a boy she could name me Chatone.  If I had been a boy I would have been called, Aaron-David Richard-William Curley.  Talk about a mouthful.  Guess I could have still been the Prince of Positivity!  The strange thing is that I never liked my name.  No one can ever pronounce it and I am often called something very close to a curse word.  (grrrr)  My dream name as a child was Priscilla.    But alas, when I turned 14, just 2 years shy of the age my parents had agreed I could legally change my name, I fell in love with being the only person on the planet (at least it seemed) that had my name.  And since I felt so odd and unique it seemed apropos.  But then think of it… Priscilla, the Princess of Positivity.  Can’t you just hear the ring in that?!

2.  What’s the first thing you notice about people?

I notice eye contact and the facial expression. ¬†When I encounter people, I always make eye contact and¬†smile right away.¬† I want to see if I can get them to smile back. ¬†It’s probably a bit corny.¬† But then again, positivity is my super power! ¬†I am looking for the like-minded¬†ALL THE TIME.¬† Warm eyes and kind faces get my attention.

3.  Do you have kids?

Yes!  Two kids, Katelin (15) and Levi (11).   I also lost a boy and girl to miscarriage and one that was too early to know.  Saddest time in my life I have to say…but it’s made me a stronger and more compassionate person.  Isn’t it amazing that our scars make us beautiful?

4.  Do you use sarcasm a lot?

Oh boy‚Ķsarcasm is not a great thing.¬† But the wit and quickness involved is something we simply cannot do without in our home. It‚Äôs so bad that when Levi was 3 years old he gave his first eye roll, head tilt and ‚Äúoh pulease‚Ķ‚Ä̬† Enough said!

5.  Scary movie or happy endings?

I hate like scary movies.  I’m that annoying person in an action movie that actually screams when the guns come out.  My blood pressure literally rises with suspense, and I cannot stand to be frightened!  Like when someone jumps out of a corner or is standing in a dark room…nope!  Not me.  Not my thing.  Hubby will be sat there enjoying it and I have a scarf blocking my eyes!

6.  Do you have any special talents?

Music is my thing.  I sing.  Play piano and flute.  And I love to dance.  If you pay me enough I can rap free style РI mean spoken word poetry…

7.  When was the last time you cried?

I cried really hard last weekend (7/29/17).¬† I was at a themed convention called, ‚ÄúDon‚Äôt Give Up!‚ÄĚ in Tampa with my family.¬† There was a dramatization of a woman who lost her dad and how she coped with it by relying on God.¬† It felt so real!¬† Exactly how I felt when I lost my dad.¬† Even though it‚Äôs been almost 20 years (October 1997), I still miss him.¬† Full out ugly cry ensued.

8.  What is your favorite drink?  Animal?  Perfume?

OK seriously what a strange series of questions!  Drink would be fizzy Pellegrino with lime twist. Animal is Portuguese water dog.  Perfume is Belara Midnight by Mary Kay.

9.  What phone do you have?

Currently I am loving my iPhone 7+.  I was a super slow adopter of apple products.  Old school lover of a blackberry until my friends all laughed me into submission.  Now I am an Apple product robot.  Sorry, I’m not sorry!

10.  What was your favorite trip/vacation?

My hubby Mark is the ‚ÄúKing of Travel‚ÄĚ so we have had some great travels in currently 28+ years of marriage.¬† However, one of the very best trips we have taken, was¬†for our 10th anniversary.¬† We went to the south of Spain.¬† It was a 5 day trip; hotel, air, food for $500 per person.¬† My brother-in-law saw a tiny add in the NY Times and we thought it might not even be a real offer. ¬†We called, found out it was legit and started our planning. ¬†I was super excited. ¬†A month or so later we found out we were pregnant with our first baby. ¬†Crazy! ¬†Even more excited. ¬†10th anniversary. ¬†After only just trying to get pregnant for a short time – boom! ¬† We were flying high and all was right in our happy world…until it wasn’t. ¬†Imperfect life happened and on May 10, 1999, the same week we were supposed to travel, I miscarried our baby. ¬†The devastation was real! ¬†I never thought I would understand anything again, let alone laugh, have fun or have even an ounce of self-esteem or self-love. ¬†We called the travel agent and told our story. ¬†Without even asking for any proof from our doctor, and without insurance they allowed us to cancel, reschedule for a month after my surgery and honored the $500 price even though going in the month of June would have doubled the price. ¬†

So why was this the best trip/vacation ever?  The endless days summer days when the sun set around 10pm, the blue waters of the Mediterranean sea, the pink mountains capped in snow all around, the warm loving friends we met, the tiny, smooth, multi-colored pebbles on the beach and the miracle of knowing only God could create an earth so perfectly beautiful, fostered my faith that I could feel good again.

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“How agreeable is to feel the sea breeze playing upon one’s face. The heroine of this piece seems to have gone to the sea shore to feel this sensation that is so refreshing and restorative for her skin.” ¬†Elisa Sculpture – Brisa 1999/5000

And by the time we came home I was on the road to healing.  

To commemorate that time in our lives and for my anniversary, Mark gave me “Breeze” a 5000 piece, limited edition Elisa¬†sculpture. ¬†Ironically we got number 1999 without even asking. ¬†And until Katelin was finally born in 2002,¬†Brisa, as she is known in Spanish, was my treasured daughter. ¬†Now I have the real thing to accompany my doll. ¬† Positivity really can be born during adversity.

 

 

 

 

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Is Information Overload Stealing Your Positivity?

IMG_7625Are you simply trying to juggle way too much information? Think of all the blogs, vlogs, Facebook posts, tweets, Instagram and Pinterest pics, Snapchat, Periscopes…the list goes on and on. ¬†It can get to be an over the top habit that moves from serving you to enslaving you. Don’t get me wrong. ¬†I am a lover of knowledge. ¬†I contribute and I consume. ¬†But what happens if you start to feel that you need ALL of it for your success. ¬†How can you know what is for you?

“OK Chatone”, you say. ¬†“We hear you Princess…but what if I need the information for my big idea? ¬†What if I’m building a new brand or company or product and I need to research and figure out what to do to be successful? ¬†What then?”

You are right. ¬†When you researching, learning, and growing into something that you have never been before, knowledge is key. ¬†Bear in mind, though, that all data is not good data. ¬†If you need something very specific, working with a coach…a great coach…is generally where you need to look. ¬†For the last 15 years I have consistently worked with one coach or another and it has helped me to make great strides in grabbing my goals.

However, one of the greatest advantages has been the ability to learn to quickly decipher what information out here is for me and what is not for me. ¬†That level of discernment has served me in such a big way! ¬†¬†You know the feeling of buying the wrong thing on line with all the promises but then nothing happens? ¬†You feel nothing. ¬†You do nothing. ¬†You have no resonation. ¬†No soul-ping at all. ¬†Why? ¬†Because the information did not serve you. ¬†It just seemed like it.¬†For me, working with various coaches helped me to memorize the sound of the ring of truth. ¬†Then it’s easy to buy the right records and sing along. ¬†

What about you? ¬†Still searching and unsure? ¬†Haven’t made the coach/mentor/consultant investment yet? ¬†Well until you do, I’m here to help! ¬†Check out these 5 ways to quickly evaluate information so you don’t have to waste your time or your money! ¬†(See if you can find the poem…)

Is it 100% True?  Pick Good PEARS. Look for Proof, Experience, Authenticity and Realistic.  It should be easy to do this.  But the information out here is in overload format!  And when you want success, there is a fantastic claim about everything ranging  from how to trim fat from a raw chicken to how to trim fat from your thighs!  Tip:  If the information sounds too good to be true, it generally is!

Is it Really For You? ¬†Every Guru isn’t for you. ¬†Every gift is not meant for you to open. ¬†For example, you read about an amazing writing coach who is offering a program. ¬†She has 10 best sellers under her belt and has helped with over 500 clients to become best sellers also. ¬†Wow…she must be for you, right! ¬†No! ¬†Not if you hate writing. ¬†Haven’t read a book in 15 years. And the thought of a bookstore gives you hives. ¬†What excites today will demoralize tomorrow if it’s not for you. ¬†Buyer beware!

Does it Make You Feel Blue? ¬†Great question, right? ¬†Take a good look at who or what you watch the most. ¬†Perhaps it’s a top coach or trainer well renown in his/her professional. ¬†Content is flowing 24/7 and you know they must have what you need…look at their success?! ¬†But do you feel uneasy, annoyed, frustrated afterwards? ¬† Is their mode of motivation positive or do you sense an element of condescension? ¬†We are all gifted with the ability to almost automatically pick up on the energy of others. ¬†We just have the tendency to justify it. ¬†If you want your positivity to show up and stay up – Shift Accordingly!

Would You Share it With Your Crew? ¬†Sharing is an integral part of the fabric of our society. ¬†We specifically share what serves us personally. ¬†Think of the last time you had an amazing dinner at a hidden gem restaurant. ¬†Think about the last motivational book or article that you loved. ¬†Even think about the diet or exercise program that you feel truly served you. ¬†What was the first thing you wanted to do? ¬†SHARE!! ¬†Sharing is the social lifeblood of today’s media. So, if you consistently that you would NEVER share with anyone in your inner circle…simply ask why?

Afterwards Do you Feel Like You Grew? ¬†¬†If you are able to get through the first four “poetry points” you have chosen great content so absorb on! ¬†Right? ¬†Well…there’s just one more thing. ¬†Let’s bottom line all of this. ¬†Growth is the key reason for taking in information. We are growing or dying. ¬†It’s that simple. ¬†Without it you might as well just ¬†sit on the couch and look out of the window instead of expending the mental energy needed to examine and apply the content that you have chosen. ¬†So pick morphy material! ¬†If the material is stagnant and can never be applied to anything new or is the same old, same old don’t expect anything to change. ¬†

Chances are, the volume will only increase.  But equipped with these 5 steps you can turn up exactly what you want to hear and mute the rest.  Be well!

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Excuse Me…May I Offer You A Hankie? Three Tips to Squash the Common Cough.

hankieStrange question indeed. ¬†But everyday we encounter people that need a hankie. ¬†The back of their hand. ¬†The crook of their arm. ¬†A napkin. ¬†A tissue. ¬†A turn of the head. ¬†Anything to assist them from coughing all over you. ¬†You know what I’m saying! ¬†You’ve been the victim probably in the last few hours of someone coughing in your direction, not turning their head, ignoring the sputum that is dropping everywhere!tissues

Negative, emotional coughing, is just as contagious¬†as an actual virus. ¬†It’s prevalent to epidemic proportions. ¬†In the family it starts as young as early school age children. ¬†The negative energy is flowing and causing stagnation in ever area of our lives. ¬†It’s as hard to combat as a super bug. ¬†And just like those bugs, there¬†are few if any¬†external medicines that will do the ultimate trick. ¬†The prescription¬†is usually something¬†like: ¬†Rest. ¬†Fluids. ¬†Disinfect your environment so you don’t contaminate the family.

Do the same principles apply when someone has a chronic cough?  A super bug of the spirit?  Is there a way to avoid catching the epidemic?!

The good news? ¬†Yes! ¬†You absolutely can. ¬†The other good news? ¬†It’s the same formula as for a regular cough. ¬†But be careful . . . Chronic Coughers are not easily shaken!

Three Tips To Squash The Common Cough

  1. Take a Break. ¬†stopIf you are constantly bombarded with the negative drama of others, their sad stories, their woe-is-me existence, or their tales of victimization you will eventually catch the Common Cough. ¬†So take a break. ¬†It’s easy to see¬†who these folks are in your life; when you see their name on your phone or email, a little sigh escapes your lips. ¬†That “sigh” is your sign! ¬†Give yourself permission to limit time with this individual. ¬†Sometimes you know how much you immunity can take, and other times you don’t know until you get home and you are coughing too! ¬†So instead of that, make a decision to honor your boundaries. ¬†You deserve to¬†be in the best health possible. ¬†(In another blog or video I will jump into what happens when¬†the cough resides in the house with you! ¬†Stayed Tuned!!)
  2. Fluids. ¬†Fluids lubricate the system. ¬†Fluids assist things to get and stay moving. ¬†Instead of the dryness of the throat, just a little fluid eases everything. ¬†The same is true in dealing with emotionally negative people. ¬†The fluid that is most readily available, but sometimes hard to muster is kindness, love, and understanding, and this takes time. ¬†Wait! ¬†Doesn’t that contradict “taking a break”? fluids¬†Not exactly. ¬†If you want to have the most positive experience possible, there has to be a fair amount of “benefit of the doubt”. ¬†Everyone deserves that. ¬†In practical terms this means you might have infrequent but kind communications with this person. ¬†Especially in the workplace or in closer relationships. ¬†Would it really hurt to acknowledge this person, perhaps offering them a listening ear every now and again? ¬†Could you offer them a hankie? ¬†Perhaps having a good word for them? ¬†Even though it may not seem to make a dent, it will make a difference. ¬†If not for them, it will for you. ¬†If will create an ease based on putting someone else first, even just for a little while.
  3. Disinfect the Environment. There is a really good reason why frequent hand washing is recommended when we are sick. ¬†It prevents that spread of germs. ¬†Does this hold true with negative, emotional coughing too? ¬†Yes! ¬†lysolTo help protect yourself from catching the cough, simply clean up! ¬†Don’t leave the negativity to fester in your mind. ¬†Replace it with positive recordings. ¬†Read books that build. ¬†Post affirmations in your surroundings. ¬†Use uplifting music to tune it out. ¬†Light a candle. ¬†Burn some incense. ¬†Spritz essential oils. ¬†Journal. ¬†All of these are like disinfectants for the mind. ¬†Protect yourself and prevent the spread of negative energy!

Keeping a positive healthy mind is pretty easy.  With awareness and a few quick strategies you can steer clear of the Common Cough.

Chatone Morrison – 1/17/17

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